More on forgiveness
Forgiveness is very difficult when something happens and you have to forgive and it is over. No problem, as soon as you forgive you never think of it again, difficult but very doable.
Many times that is not the case. Many times the people or companies or whatever that we need to forgive are in front of us daily. You think about those things that you need to forgive, and you see that those who have wronged you are still around and never admitting any wrong doing. In some cases a person does not even know that you know of the act that you must forgive but many other people know of the situation.
The forgiveness in this case is a daily challenge, daily prayer, daily exposure to the situation in your own mind, a daily struggle totally internal. I was once told by a counselor that I had to deal with more on a daily basis than anyone he had ever talked to. The only thing which can do anything to relieve that situation is total forgiveness, daily.